what's with that?

So it's over. we went out tonite and the minute we got there, it was like, he wanted to leave, so i decided i would. Got home around 2.00clock. He did not show up till 8a.m. Next thing i knew, he was telling me about these two ladies he met, i was cool with that. Next evevning, he would go out to dinner with friends. He calls me at 11.00p.m. to meet uo for a drink only for me to hear there that he had been to dinner with one of the ladies. Some woman walked into the bar, he immediately walked up to her, so i respected myself and left. He comes home, got on the phone at 2.30a.m. talking to his internet girlfriend in thailand, So, i went into my room (no lock, as is common over here) . He ends his phone call and comes into my roomto tell me how much he loved me and he wanted me to come sleep in his bed?????? Na wa o! It's good this is europe and the criminal justice system works full force otherwise!!! What's up with that? am i in some parallel universe?